Lately I've been hearing Industry people who are currently single saying that they want to be in a relationship. Although this is possible to be in a healthy relationship while being an Adult Industry Employer, Producer, Manager, Photographer, Talent, Model, Editor or whatever you do in the Adult business. I would advise that while you are single "WORK HARD WHILE SINGLE".
A relationship takes Compromise, Communication and Caring. Even flowers need sunlight, soil and water.
The relationship I am in is now with my daughter's mother is healthy because she and I balance my day job, my relationship and my family life. I no longer see her as trying to change me. I see her as a delicate flower who needs nurturing.
Yes, she knew what I was doing when she met me. But I must balance my responsibilities between work and personal life as a welcomed challenge. So I do work less at my business responsibilities so she does not feel neglected.
...Again, while you are single "WORK HARD." Because to make a relationship work well & last long you will need to compromise with your mate.